As an advisor at D-POPS GROUP engaged in startup support, I often see founders encounter the same wall: sales. In this article, I will explain the specific sales skills that executives should possess, according to my firsthand experience with providing hands-on support.
Sales is the Foundation of Post-Launch Growth
Over the course of any company’s growth, selling something is an unavoidable activity. This applies not only to B2B businesses but also to B2C enterprises. Sales inevitably occur when developing channels or forming business partnerships and alliances. The era where a great product naturally generates turnover just by being launched is over. We have entered a new era where competitive advantages are created through the design of the dialogue with the customer itself.
In the early founding and growth stages of a startup, entrepreneurs often stand on the front lines themselves before a specialized sales force is established. Whether it is fundraising, acquiring partners, or cultivating relationships with major customers, the reality is that the founder is at the center of the negotiation during these critical phases.
Entrepreneurs with extensive sales experience can use that background as an asset. Conversely, founders coming from technical or product development backgrounds often view sales as a weak point. In reality, however, the initial growth of a business is more often determined by the quality of dialogue with customers than by the perfection of the product.
In this article, I will introduce three “management-minded sales skills” that I hope will serve as a reference not only for sales heads but also for entrepreneurs.
1. A Listening Stance and the Courage Not to Sell
Recently, I received a rare phone call. It was a joyful report from the founding CEO of a B2B business solutions startup that I support through investment and business promotion.
He was calling to announce that he had received an informal contract agreement from a market-leading company. Just a few months ago, negotiations had seemed to stall, and he had sounded frustrated, but now, his voice carried a clear sense of achievement. After congratulating him, I told him that this was not merely a product of luck, but the result of changing his attitude toward sales and thus taking a major step forward for his future activities.
Looking back on this negotiation, he realized that his past failure had resulted from pressing for an early contract immediately after a free trial and attempting to move forward according to his own company’s convenient timing rather than making sure to fully resolve the client’s concerns.
This time, he revised his approach. He did not rush the decision to commit to his company’s product. Instead, he worked with the counterparty to organize the points they needed to consider and prepared adequately for the next meeting, naturally bridging the way to the next dialogue. As a result, the negotiations moved forward steadily, leading to this successful step.
The noteworthy point is that he did not use any special closing techniques. Instead, he consciously refrained from the forward-leaning posture of trying to oversell.
Four months ago, I introduced him to a potential client and sat in on the meeting. I had concerns about his behavior during that session, and after it ended, I gave him some stern advice: “The most important thing in sales is not to get the contract at all costs, but to avoid ruining relationships.”
What his negotiation style lacked was a listening stance. This does not simply mean staying silent while the other party speaks. It is a stance of advancing a dialogue while reading subtle reactions:
・Where is the person choosing their words carefully?
・Are there any unspoken implications?
・Did they tilt their head slightly in doubt?
Many sales representatives focus on pushing the negotiation toward a contract. However, their essential role should actually be to maintain an environment where the other party feels comfortable to continue their consideration. When pressured to decide, people either stop thinking or show a strong rejection, and they will quietly withdraw from you. Negotiations that end with “We’ll take this back and think about it” generally end in failure.
Therefore, you should not try to immediately stamp out their questions. Instead, while keeping yourself organized regarding what should come next and allowing sufficient space to address their doubts, you must seek to continue the dialogue with the other person’s goals in mind.
It is widely said that a capable sales person has abundant knowledge and can respond instantly with the right answers. However, the kind of person who earns trust from customers is the one with a sincere attitude: someone who does not interrupt, provides pauses for consideration, admits uncertainties, and promises to look into them before the next meeting.
After that failed negotiation, the CEO’s way of interacting with customers clearly changed. What he then gained months later was not just a contract, but the realization that he could truly listen, the success of moving forward without rushing, and a sales sense that he could expect to produce repeated success in the future.
A listening stance is precisely what enables the decision not to sell at the moment.
If you’re an entrepreneur who feels challenged by sales, you need to ask yourself the following question. “Am I truly trying to listen to the other person, or am I just trying to make the other person listen to me?” The moment you understand that distinction, the quality of your sales will undoubtedly begin to change.

2. Questioning Ability Found in Locating the Root of the Issue
What makes the difference in sales outcomes is not how well you can speak. When I served in business development and B2B sales for many years, I always set one goal: get the other party to verbalize their business’s problems.
Simply put, it is the killer question: “What business challenges is your company facing now?”
Asking a CEO about management challenges, or a marketing head about brand strategy challenges, or an HR head about talent development, or an IT head about internal systems. Reaching the point where I could ask this question was always my goal, particularly for our first meeting.
Obviously, if you ask about a company’s issues abruptly in your first meeting with someone, you are not going to receive an answer. First, you have to build up trust, create an atmosphere where they feel safe to talk, and eventually lead to this question within the natural flow of dialogue.
Once that relationship is built and the right question is asked at the right time, the moment the other party verbalizes their problem, the essence of the discussion shifts from one-sided selling to collaborative and constructive dialogue. Your own company’s products or services then naturally enter the conversation as a candidate for the solution.
Most unsuccessful sales attempts begin with an explanation before hearing the problem. They follow a set pattern: introducing your company and then yourself; describing the product and its market advantages; case studies within the same industry; related costs or durations; then, concluding with something like, “So, our product ought to be useful for your company.”
However, at that point, the client will begin to evaluate what you said. Is this really necessary now? Is this salesperson exaggerating? Could there be an error in this data? In the worst case, that mindset then switches to finding a reason to refuse. Management and business both have goals; there is no reason to implement a product unrelated to those goals.
This is why the first thing a salesperson should do is understand the other party’s goals and challenges.
Furthermore, in reality, you may not always meet the final decision-maker in the first meeting. In that case, ask the company representatives about their operational goals or the challenges in achieving them. Even if they cannot speak for the overall management strategy, they can talk about their own job-related pains. Then, you can think together about solving those problems and search for where your company’s value proposition could belong. Soon enough, these exchanges will lead up to a dialogue with the decision-maker.
If you’re still at the stage where the other party hasn’t shared their issues, then it’s meaningless to present a feature list or a price table.
You should only begin discussing specific service details after the client has fully understood which of their problems your solution addresses and to what extent. Simply by getting this sequence right, you can drastically change the way that business negotiations progress. By narrowing your explanation down to only the features that the client is interested in, you can reduce your presentation time and allocate the remaining time to constructive, collaborative consideration. Also, effective case studies are not always limited to the same industry; there is no small number of cases when examples from other industries that solved similar problems resonated even more strongly.
Ultimately, everything comes back to a proper listening stance.
If you enter the mindset of putting yourself in other people’s shoes and listening seriously to what they have to say, the right questions will arise naturally. This is precisely why good listeners are preferred over good talkers in sales.

3. The Courage to Say ‘No’ and the Courage to Withdraw
Many believe the ideal B2B salesperson is one who can win every single deal. In reality, that is not necessarily the mark of an excellent salesperson. A salesperson who protects the company and its systems in the long term is one who can identify deals that should not be taken and has the judgment to refuse if necessary.
In the sales field, there will be moments when you say to yourself, “I want this deal, but I feel I shouldn’t close it for strategic reasons.”
Customers who take excessive customization for granted; those who insistently make one-sided demands; those with a widespread corporate culture of arrogance; supervisors who chase price without understanding value: making deals with clients like these tends to increase indirect costs and mental exhaustion resulting from the necessary development, support, and management. Eventually, the contract becomes a burden on the company.
Sales requires patience, but it’s not necessary to carry all of the stress yourself. Unreasonable demands; business discussions that are at an impasse; attending to completely disrespectful people; or negotiations intended solely for price comparison: if you choose to force these impossible deals through, it will lead to a loss for your entire organization.
Halting an unhealthy deal before it gets any further is also a sales skill.
“Since this does not align with our company’s policies, we will have to decline.” Such a statement is not rude or hostile; it is an expression of sincerity that shows your boundaries. In the long run, a company that clearly shows what it can and cannot do will earn more trust than one that accepts anything.
Making the decision to withdraw is also the duty of a leader.
I once made a management decision, in agreement with headquarters executives, to intentionally drop out of a large project where price competition had overheated and no profit could be expected. This was not admitting defeat, but a business judgment to withdraw from a fight where we would suffer heavy losses even if we won in the end.
This concept is not limited to new prospective clients; there are also existing customers from whose partnership you should withdraw.
Clients who take up too much time with low profitability; clients who make no effort to implement agreed-upon terms; clients who lack the will to revive their failing businesses; those who always start from a place of negativity: holding onto these relationships just because “the customer is king” is a choice that erodes the company’s future.
A decision not to renew a contract can also be necessary for healthy management.
Interestingly, companies that have the courage to say ‘no’ will ultimately attract better customers. Relationships with clients who align with your corporate culture, maintain mutual respect, understand your worth, and continue making efforts to grow become trust-based partnerships that go beyond mere business transactions. Rather than your prices, these customers choose you based on your merit, and become long-term fans.
While sales is a job that involves being chosen, it’s a job that involves choosing your associates. Far from being cruel or heartless, the courage to say ‘no’ or to withdraw enables responsible decisions that protect the company, its employees, and its future. Concentrating resources on the relationships that are truly valuable is precisely what generates the next stage of growth. Is that not the very essence of “management-minded sales”?
Conclusion: Sales Skills are Part of Management Skills
In this article, we introduced three skills:
A listening stance and the courage not to sell
Questioning ability found in locating the root of the issue
The courage to say ‘no’ and the courage to withdraw
None of these are merely sales techniques. They represent a management mindset that allows both executives and sales leaders to correctly allocate limited management resources while earnestly facing the market.
No matter how great your product is, it will not reach the market without a discussion plan that is equally great. Standing on the forefront of business growth, sales is a necessary part of business management itself.
D-POPS GROUP has the vision of “realizing a Venture Ecosystem”※. To this end, we are committed to building systems that allow the members of our Ecosystem to grow sustainably and providing hands-on support through our team of advisors.
※Read “Venture Ecosystem: A Platform for Growth and Sustainability” for more details.
We will continue to offer our support so that the companies within our Ecosystem can put this “Management-Minded Sales” into practice. I hope that this article will serve as a practical aid to startup founders and executives alike.
D-POPS GROUP Advisor
Genta Sugihara
